Sunday, April 28, 2013


Good friends are hard to come by. If you can count the amount of true friends you have on one hand, boy are you lucky. A true friend is someone who loves you unconditionally, that when you screw up they'll give you another chance. A true friend is someone you can call at 3:00 in the morning if you are in a crisis. And most of all a true friend is someone you can trust, tell anything to, and you never have to worry about them telling someone else. Thank you to my 5 true friends who have been so supportive, were there for me during not only the ups but the downs too, and love me unconditionally no matter how neurotic I get!
Give something back to your true friends to show them how grateful you are to have them in your life!

Tuesday, April 23, 2013


Everyman loves a strong, confident, sexy woman right?  Then ladies it's time to get your sexy back, turn it on, love yourself, and don't be anything but yourself. Even if you're not one hundred percent thrilled with your appearance go out and do something to change it. Get that new hair style, push up bra, sexy lingerie, work it mama! So many woman are waiting for Prince Charming to come knocking at their door to be rescued like Richard Gere did with Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman, which happens to be one of my favorite movies. Even though she came off a bit unsophisticated, and uneducated she was still strong in what she believed in and you bet your ass
she was sexy and confident in her own way.  Many men are attracted to what they can't have, which makes it more exciting and intriguing to them. If a women comes off needy, desperate and too available he will get turned off.  So to the ladies who want to keep the romance alive, and keep your man interested here are some tips for you:

*When he comes home from a long stressful day whip out the hot oil and give him a sensual massage
with a happy ending.

* Don't be so anxious...let him initiate and be the man!

*Cook him a meal that will knock his socks off.

*Buy tickets to his favorite sporting event

*Wear something provocative when he walks in the door.

*Do something out of the ordinary that will open his eyes...something spontaneous which will hold his interest.

If you want to keep the relationship alive, exciting, sexy and romantic you gotta do the will definitely pay off.  Then go buy that Louis purse you've had your eye on because you deserve it!

Monday, April 22, 2013


As a Matchmaker/Relationship Expert I've dealt with all kinds of people. There are the ones who are admittedly superficial who are only attracted to people with outer beauty and there are the ones who have a certain look or type that they're drawn to. Is this a bad thing? It is if you're still single and in the same boat as you were in five years ago. Maybe you need to try something new. Maybe you should look deeper into the soul and heart of the person. You will be surprised at what you might find.
Why are people so hung up on looks? Is it because their parents were critical of them, or maybe they're so critical of themselves and insecure that they need to have a trophy to validate themselves.
We all want to be attracted to our partner but isn't it true that after years of being together the looks fade but the person on the inside is who we fell in love with?  Or maybe not. Maybe we fell in love for the wrong reasons. Why do men cheat on their wives after being married for ten, fifteeen or twenty years. Is it because she let herself go and doesn't care about how she looks? Is it because he brings home the bread and butter and expects the sexy siren to open the door when he comes home? Does he want his cake and eat it too? Is he someone who needs attention twenty-four seven? All of these are true depending on the particular man.
Maybe if she went to the gym, got her sexy back on and was a slut in the bedroom he wouldn't have that affair.  There's no right answer but there is a solution to the problem. In my upcoming blog you'll hear the tips on how to keep him interested, romantic and available.